My marriage ended 2 years ago.
Marriage is hard. Relationships are hard.
We were so happy once. We dreamed together, we explored the world together, and we supported each other.
We were together.
But then, life took its toll.
Money. Family. Having a child. Intimacy. Conflicts. Turning away.
No one taught us how to overcome those challenges.
We went through marriage counseling.
Like for many others, it was a last resort but proved to be ultimately fruitless.
We were alone. We didn't know what to do. We were trying to solve the biggest challenge of our lives, all by ourselves.
We thought the problems between us were insurmountable. We became so distant. Our relationship became doomed to fail.
"We weren't meant to be together."
A few months later, by chance I picked up a book written by one of the leading couples therapists in the world.
I was awestruck. Everything started to make sense. Then I went down the rabbit hole of couples therapy and its entire universe of scientific research.
Harsh startups. Demon dialogues. Gridlocks. Stonewalling. Contempt. Missed emotional bids. Failed repair attempts. The four horsemen. The Roach Motel for Lovers.
If I had known about all of the above back then, our relationship wouldn't have deteriorated. I wished I had known then what I know now so that our relationship could have been fixed.
"Why didn't I know about all this?"
Couples therapy works, but more often than not couples seek help too late. The stigmata.
There are also well-intended yet inept therapists. When couples therapy goes bad, you don't blame the therapy, you blame yourselves.
Half of marriages end in divorce.
Of the other half, many are certainly going through the same issues that many of us have gone through.
Unhappy relationships cause unimaginable suffering for generations of families.
But what if we could change everything?
What if relationships in our generation no longer failed 50% of the time?
What if billions of people no longer had to suffer from being in an unhappy relationship with their loved one?
What if we could help billions of people to improve their relationship with their loved one?
What if we could prevent the years of suffering for generations of families?
To us, this is as impactful to humanity as Elon shooting rockets into space.
This is why we are working on this.
We're a team of technologists and relationship scientists, and we are building something that will impact billions of people's lives.
It is something that would have helped us, and it will help you.
Be among the first to join our journey.
Be Together with your loved one.
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